Always put your wishes in writing so that there are no troubles when you die. Because death is often ill timed and surprising, this should be taken care of at the first chance. You cannot authorize your own cremation in many states, and as a result, the next of kin must be in agreement if a cremation is to take place. You can ask your cremation provider as to whether your state allows self authorization.

When choosing a cremation provider, here are some questions to ask:

1. In the United States, ask if they are a member of the Cremation Association of North America? If not, do they adhere to a code of cremation ethics? In other countries, an Internet search will tell you the governing agency for cremation. Make sure to ask if the facility it part of said agency.

2. What permits are needed before cremation can take place?

3. Can the cremation be witnessed by a family member or designated individual?

4. What is the average time between reception of the remains and the completion of the cremation?

5. How will the cremated remains be returned if an urn is not provided prior to cremation?

6. What is their policy in regards to disposing prosthetics, artificial hips, knees, etc.?

7. Do they have refrigeration facilities to hold the body prior to cremation?

The cremation process can differ extensively from one crematory to the next. Also, state and federal regulations will also have an effect on the procedures. If you have particular concerns about cremation laws or procedures in your area, it s paramount that you check with the cremation service provider that you re considering or have selected. Most cremation providers will be glad to explain their exact procedures and safeguards with you prior to the cremation taking place. This is usually very comforting to the families.

A mandatory 24 to 48 hour waiting period is usually a required before the cremation can be performed. Your loved is held in a temperature controlled refrigeration unit until the cremation can be performed. Cremation providers will usually permit family members to be present when the body is placed into the cremation chamber. In reality, a few religious groups include this as part of their funeral custom. Since laws and procedures can contrast significantly, please address detailed questions to the cremation service providers in your area.